26.3.17

Anger


March 26, 2017

Opening Hymns:
For the Beauty of the Earth
http://www.hymnsite.com/lyrics/umh092.sht

Scripture Reading:
John 9:1-41
9:1 As he walked along, he saw a man blind from birth.

9:2 His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?"

9:3 Jesus answered, "Neither this man nor his parents sinned; he was born blind so that God's works might be revealed in him.

9:4 We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming when no one can work.

9:5 As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world."

9:6 When he had said this, he spat on the ground and made mud with the saliva and spread the mud on the man's eyes,

9:7 saying to him, "Go, wash in the pool of Siloam" (which means Sent). Then he went and washed and came back able to see.

9:8 The neighbors and those who had seen him before as a beggar began to ask, "Is this not the man who used to sit and beg?"

9:9 Some were saying, "It is he." Others were saying, "No, but it is someone like him." He kept saying, "I am the man."

9:10 But they kept asking him, "Then how were your eyes opened?"

9:11 He answered, "The man called Jesus made mud, spread it on my eyes, and said to me, 'Go to Siloam and wash.' Then I went and washed and received my sight."

9:12 They said to him, "Where is he?" He said, "I do not know."

9:13 They brought to the Pharisees the man who had formerly been blind.

9:14 Now it was a sabbath day when Jesus made the mud and opened his eyes.

9:15 Then the Pharisees also began to ask him how he had received his sight. He said to them, "He put mud on my eyes. Then I washed, and now I see."

9:16 Some of the Pharisees said, "This man is not from God, for he does not observe the sabbath." But others said, "How can a man who is a sinner perform such signs?" And they were divided.

9:17 So they said again to the blind man, "What do you say about him? It was your eyes he opened." He said, "He is a prophet."

9:18 The Jews did not believe that he had been blind and had received his sight until they called the parents of the man who had received his sight

9:19 and asked them, "Is this your son, who you say was born blind? How then does he now see?"

9:20 His parents answered, "We know that this is our son, and that he was born blind;

9:21 but we do not know how it is that now he sees, nor do we know who opened his eyes. Ask him; he is of age. He will speak for himself."

9:22 His parents said this because they were afraid of the Jews; for the Jews had already agreed that anyone who confessed Jesus to be the Messiah would be put out of the synagogue.

9:23 Therefore his parents said, "He is of age; ask him."

9:24 So for the second time they called the man who had been blind, and they said to him, "Give glory to God! We know that this man is a sinner."

9:25 He answered, "I do not know whether he is a sinner. One thing I do know, that though I was blind, now I see."

9:26 They said to him, "What did he do to you? How did he open your eyes?"

9:27 He answered them, "I have told you already, and you would not listen. Why do you want to hear it again? Do you also want to become his disciples?"

9:28 Then they reviled him, saying, "You are his disciple, but we are disciples of Moses.

9:29 We know that God has spoken to Moses, but as for this man, we do not know where he comes from."

9:30 The man answered, "Here is an astonishing thing! You do not know where he comes from, and yet he opened my eyes.

9:31 We know that God does not listen to sinners, but he does listen to one who worships him and obeys his will.

9:32 Never since the world began has it been heard that anyone opened the eyes of a person born blind.

9:33 If this man were not from God, he could do nothing."

9:34 They answered him, "You were born entirely in sins, and are you trying to teach us?" And they drove him out.

9:35 Jesus heard that they had driven him out, and when he found him, he said, "Do you believe in the Son of Man?"

9:36 He answered, "And who is he, sir? Tell me, so that I may believe in him."

9:37 Jesus said to him, "You have seen him, and the one speaking with you is he."

9:38 He said, "Lord, I believe." And he worshiped him.

9:39 Jesus said, "I came into this world for judgment so that those who do not see may see, and those who do see may become blind."

9:40 Some of the Pharisees near him heard this and said to him, "Surely we are not blind, are we?"

9:41 Jesus said to them, "If you were blind, you would not have sin. But now that you say, 'We see,' your sin remains.


Message:
Sometimes we can be blind to our own sin, just as the Pharisees were blind. We can convince ourselves that what we are doing is just. We can tell ourselves that other people’s actions make them deserve how we treat them. Anger can be so blinding that it can make us justify mean things that we do. After the anger lifts we can often see what we’ve done wrong.

It has been a while since I had an argument; however, I remember having many when I was going to college. We were all very tired and stressed, and that extra strain probably made it easier for us to have more heated disagreements. I had arguments with one of my closest friends who was in a bad relationship, and a different argument with my roommate who I felt was talking down about the war that America was in, and my step-brother was helping fight in that war at the time.

The last thing someone in a controlling relationship needs are her friends trying to control her too. My dear friend needed love and support. She needed to be lifted up and given respect. It was only by her seeing herself as worthy of more, that she was able to leave that relationship. It is hard to see someone go through such hardship, but I’m sad to see that fighting with her about it probably made it worse. It shook our relationship, and probably caused her to cling to him even more. It was not anger that she needed to see, but love.

My roommate had different political views at that time, and speaking together about politics could be risky at times. When she was dismissive about a war my step-brother had been fighting, I felt as though I needed to defend him and his work. I was so angry that I couldn’t see that she was not saying that what he was doing wasn’t making a difference… I couldn’t see that she wasn’t specifically talking about him. In my mind his good work had been questioned, and I needed to set her straight. How could I see that fighting about it wouldn’t do anything?

In both instances, I felt justified in my part of the argument. Even justified to storm off. However, after taking a look back on each dispute I can see that, while I thought my words were true and justified, other words would have done more good, and been more healing. Times of stress and anger are the times when we need our eyes to be opened the most. Let us not allow our emotions to blind us of our own wrongdoings. Let us instead keep our eyes opened, and see and treat those around us as children of God.  

 
Time of Prayer
Dear Lord, forgive us when we don’t see others as Your children. Let us treat each other with love in kindness through the good times as well as the bad. Amen.

The Lord’s Prayer

Closing Hymn
Amazing Grace: http://www.hymnsite.com/lyrics/umh378.sht

May the Lord bless you and keep you: May the Lord make His face shine upon you, and be gracious unto you: May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace." Amen.
Go in peace, serve the Lord
Thanks be to God

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